It should have been at a quiet setting where you got to know each other and to see if chemistry exists. This will be the date where sparks can fly and anything from kissing to sex may occur. Okay, so you have made it to the third date. The point of the second date is to see what your date is like in a fun setting.

The Third Date Rule The third date rule proposes that sex usually happens on the third date. I always invite my date to my house for the third date.

Obviously, this is up to the people involved but let me give my view about all of the dates, from the first date to the third date. The first date was about establishing chemistry. This could have been something you both had in com from kayaking to watching a movie. It should have left the other person wanting to see you again and lead to a second date. The third date is about intimacy, seeing how you interact with each other in an intimate setting.

The second date was about having fun or doing an activity you both had in com or both enjoy.