You've put on weight, sometimes a lot (some pregnant women get caught in this one) 2.

Your mind and the way you perceive yourself. Part 5 - The "I Don't Like the Way I Look-Low Self Esteem" Rut I've personally been in this rut and I can tell you it's not much fun, but the good news is that it's not permanent and there are some things you can do to move through to the other side. She is quite proud of her curves, she has other flattering features and men find her sexy as hell. You've come out of a relationship that was emotionally damaging leaving you low and vulnerable, wondering who will love you and are you good enough (you are by the way) There are more reasons for it but these are the more com ones and the answer lies in the same place... Have you ever seen a bigger woman, or a woman with scarring/deformities who radiates confidence and sensuality.

Some accident has occurred and you now have some "unsightly" scaring or deformity 3.

There are a few reasons why someone would fall into this rut.