I don't know any woman who feels sexy and seductive when she's in this state. Beyond the filth factor, if your place is.

If you have to worry about what was on the couch before you on it or have the inclination to throw away that toothbrush that hit the floor, it's time for a major recall of your habits. If she's creeped out at what she'll find beneath the cushions or under your bed, she's going to be tense and disgusted. Your space should be welcoming and invite you to partake in these activities. I'm not here to make you paranoid and overly concerned with details, but women are indeed detail oriented and I am here to let you in on what matters the most. It reveals key aspects of your beliefs, interests, preferences, ideals and personal philosophy. Eating, sleeping, bathing and love making.

What I See in Your House I've said it before and I'll say it again; your environment is a reflection of you. And even if you've acclimated to filth and disorganization, this is not conducive to sharing intimate space with a date.

Your home is the place where you do the most personal activities.