You seem to lack something in your approach when you ask her to go home with you, but for the life of you, you don't know what it is. The answer is quite simple, actually. You have to build her trust in you as a person before she will be alone with you going out, let alone being with you in your home. But, there's one area that you haven't learned yet - getting her to let you take her home. You're not afraid to approach a woman, and you've dealt with the fear of rejection.

I'm assuming that you've treated her in such a way that she enjoys your company. At this point your having great conversations with women, meeting some really interesting women, and are having a lot of fun.

Bar Stool to the Bedroom - How to Get Her Back to Your Place in a Hurry You know how to flirt pretty well. She doesn't trust you enough to be comfortable going home with you. If that's the allyn and you haven't done anything weird and/or aggressive with her, then it's pretty simple.

Just behave in a way that she'll feel safe when you're near.