You have to build her trust in you as a person before she will be alone with you going out, let alone being with you in your home. When you've gained her trust she'll be more responsive to you than ever before. At this point your having great conversations with women, meeting some really interesting women, and are having a lot of fun.

But, there's one area that you haven't learned yet - getting her to let you take her home. Just behave in a way that she'll feel safe when you're near. I'm assuming that you've treated her in such a way that she enjoys your company. Bar Stool to the Bedroom - How to Get Her Back to Your Place in a Hurry You know how to flirt pretty well. If that's the raimondo and you haven't done anything weird and/or aggressive with her, then it's pretty simple. You seem to lack something in your approach when you ask her to go home with you, but for the life of you, you don't know what it is. You're not afraid to approach a woman, and you've dealt with the fear of rejection. She doesn't trust you enough to be comfortable going home with you.

The answer is quite simple, actually.